Healthy Revenge

“Those who throw punches don’t know how much it hurts.”

Only those who take punches do.

Every movement, word, behavior and respond human give is somewhat wrongdoing. Human implication is variable, either they are acceptable or distress. What given to us is unavoidable because human’s wrongdoing is unexpected and most are done by self-ego-desire. Every human being is different and variable. Human have different point of view, belief and self-power. Whatever is done and said can’t be painless guaranteed.

Crash Landing on You, Episode 5

Though it is painful of other’s wrongdoing to us, life should go on. Revenge may please us as the victim, but revenge makes you no different then those who have hurt you. However, I believe revenge makes us a better person. Why? As long as it “healthy-revenge” haha. Be the opposite person of what other judged you. Make them regret of the behavior and words they have given you.

The “healthy-revenge” will turn you into a person you never expected. Use the time to improve yourself instead of lying on your bed within social media while crying yourself out with ice cream. If someone tells you are ugly, then turn yourself to be beautiful. In every worst problem and condition, there are always way. I was born as a Muslim, I am taught that my God will not give me problem beyond my power. In this era, being beautiful is possible with all its invention. Discipline yourself with skin care, exercise and eat healthy.

Remember, don’t let anyone hurt you or make you turn into the person they misjudged you. Because they might not understand how you feel, they did it to make themselves feel good.  We should understand those people who have hurt you, because we might not know the reason behind it. But don’t let them out win you, proof them wrong and be the person who you want yourself to be.